Therapist Rapson and co-writer English find people who try to be "too nice" actually have anxious attachment disorders that stem from childhood. They help correct this situation in a series of exercises and guided reflections so the chronically nice can deal positively with work, family and social life. Since "nice" people apparently are especially anxious about romantic relationships, Rapson and English include advice on the transforming relationship, creative conflict, union and commitment. The result is a gentle series of insights written for people who are dealing with significant life issues that may make it difficult for them to understand that being inappropriately "nice" is actually not nice at all. Annotation 2006 Book News, Inc., Portland, OR (booknews.com)
